So many wonder what it’s like to be in an actual Mistress-Queen/sissy submissive marriage or relationship.

Read what answers Mistress gives to these questions.:

1) How did you and your submissive get started with a Mistress/sissy relationship?

A. Not long after we were dating, he confessed that he had a fondness for very pretty girl panties and nightgowns, especially nylon baby doll nighties and matching panties.

I enjoyed seeing him as much more submissive when he dressed in the dainty little undies, and over the course of time, I began to buy him pretty underthings. Soon, he was wearing lacy push-up bras, garter belts and stockings, high heels, and that developed into dresses, cute little outfits, and things of that nature.

With his natural submissiveness and my natural authority, I noticed that he enjoyed pleasing me and serving me in whatever way I needed, some of which I’ll blog about at a later date.
As we go along through our life, we find the Mistress/sissy relationship becoming more and more prevalent each day.
It works for us. I like to control her, and she likes to be controlled. She loves being obedient. She loves me telling her to do the housework like wash dishes, dust and vacuum, and the laundry. She loves to hand wash out my panties and bras and hang them on the clothesline. She loves the humiliation of it all.

2) What do you like about being a Mistress?

A. I love the power and control I have over my subby. Because of that power and control she knows that I demand that she do exactly as I say. If not, she’s become greatly aware of the repercussion and punishment she’ll receive for not giving due diligence to my demands.

3) Does being Mistress come with sexual feelings when you’re in control?

A. Absolutely.
Anytime I want to, I have the power to take Sissy with a strap-on, I have that power over her.
Also, if I’m feeling amorous and want to orgasm, I have a little bell that I ring that sissy knows to come to the bedroom as quickly as she can.
There, I demand that she tells me a story about a former boyfriend (or a current boyfriend,) or someone I’m interested in.
Sissy is a good storyteller, she tells details of the things I’ve shared with her that’s happened with my former or current boyfriend, and I place my favorite remote control toy in my panties until she gets to the good parts that make me orgasm.
Sometimes I use my pink rabbit toy to cum.
And occasionally when I’m feeling kind to her (and she’s been especially obedient,) I will allow her to lick me to orgasm just so I can cum on her face.

So yes, being a dominant Mistress is largely sexual in its nature.

4) In a previous post you mentioned spanking, what does spanking do for you, and what do you believe it does for your sissy?

A. As I said previously, I have a small pink wooden paddle with a heart shape cut-out. Whacking sissy’s little ass with it makes a little white heart in the middle of her bottom that’s already bright red from the smacks. When I swat her, I’m behind her so she doesn’t know when to anticipate it. I greatly enjoy seeing her jerk and convulse with each smack. Sometimes it’s one smack, sometimes two, but sometimes I’ll give her several in a row, and sometimes it stings so much that she cries, because as she says, “It hurts so good.”

It also gives me a sexual feeling to see her humiliated and embarrassed because she knows that she misbehaved.

And what it does for her (for Sissy) is she learns how not to disappoint me. She also tells me that while it stings her little bottom, she understands that the discipline is good for her and it helps her to become a better girl.
I always ensure that she thanks me for the discipline, and when I ask her why she thinks it’s good for her, that’s her reason; she says that it makes her be a better girl and helps her to learn to not disappoint her Mistress.

She’s right.

5) Do you control the days when your sissy is allowed to have an orgasm?

A. Absolutely I control it. You can’t be a Mistress in charge of a sissy unless you control those things.

Carole has a pink Chastity cage; or as she is made to refer to it, a “clitty lock.” I sometimes make her lock her little clitty, put either a pair of pretty panties or sometimes one of her pretty little pink baby girl diapers, and wear it for the rest of the day and sometimes overnight. If I didn’t do that, there’d be so much nasty boy cum all over the place.

When Carole has earned it, I make her use a pink wand style vibrator to masturbate like girls do, sometimes by placing it on the lock of her clitty cage, greatly enhancing the vibrations until she dribbles.

Sometimes when I’m feeling generous, I let her take it off but still rub it off through her panties with her girl toy.

I often tell her that the more boy cum she gets rid of, the more like a girl she’ll become.

We have a very realistic looking strap-on toy cock that cums and vibrates. Sometimes I make her suck my cock while she’s using her vibrator. I turn the vibrator on on the strap on, and when I get ready to orgasm I push the bulb that the “cum” is in and cum all over her face and in her mouth. She does her best to time this so that at the same time she is reaching very pleasurable orgasm.

And oh, you should see her when I finally let her have some release of all her pent-up sexual desires!

There are so many more things to tell you about, but that’s enough for now.

Mistress 💋